Wednesday 23 May 2012

Love Thyself or you will become Object of Objectification



I received an email from a guy friend with interesting attachments. Instead of laughing my heart out, I ended up furious.

It was a video of a Malay woman giving a blowjob to a dark-skinned man prolly  an Indian with thick but short penis. My guy friend even attached her Facebook photos and furnished her full name. I shall not reveal her full name here as I want to protect her identity. The only clue I can give now is that she PROBABLY bears the initials ‘L.O’.


I DO NOT condone such acts of publicizing intimate moments with your ex-es. I despise men who uploaded naked photos of their girlfriends or ex-lovers. I hate men who uploaded videos of their partners. It's unscrupulous and unjust. Their penises should be chopped off and feed to the dogs. They should be skinned alive. They should be eaten by the cannibals in Papua New Guinea.

According to feminist theorist Immanuel Kant, women are objects of male sexual desires. Objectification involves treating a person, someone with humanity, as an object of merely instrumental worth. Consequently this situation reduces this person to the status of an object  for use. The objectified individual is made into a tool for others' sexual purposes. Objectification therefore, constitutes a serious harm to a person's humanity.

Dear ladies, please do not get yourselves involved in such trashy, agonizing, and stressful situations. During the heat of the moment, if the man insists he wants to film you, just reject the invitation. If he demands compliance, slap his face, pack your bags and leave the place. If he still takes out his phone while you are doing the cowgirl, please snatch the phone away from him and film his ugly, flabby body instead. We have witnessed many women who have been victims of home videos. Men will not reveal their faces, but they will video the women at every nook and corner of their bodies. At the end of the day, women will always be at the losing end. Their pride and integrity will be torched and tarnished for the rest of their lives. Please love yourselves. Don't let men treat us women like toys. It should always be the other way round.


Although we behave like sluts when we are doing the act, it doesn't mean that women are really sluts. 

Whoever who knows this Malay woman, please get her to contact the website that uploaded the video. 


World Peace,
GS

18 comments:

  1. it's ironic... look who's sharing this video now..

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    1. Look who was checking out the video too..

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    2. I did not watch the video. don't think i need to check it out and anyway, let's assume i did, at least there was no endeavour on my part to be noble and say to the rest... "guys, do this girl a favour, by NOT watching the video... but i just did!!"
      Hypocrisy at its most extreme, period

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  2. I'm a guy n I agree with you on this 110%. Acts of intimacy should be kept btw two parties n not b uploaded. What an ass. Hope the women can press charges.

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  3. Pekingroastduck27 May 2012 at 10:59

    Only real gentlemen deserve real ladies: one who is classy and beautiful among company, but kinky and voracious in intimate moments don't you agree?
    Great blog(: provided me with a salve for my boring sleepless night.
    Anyway, from one bored stud to a (imagining right now to be) hot and irresistible babe, what say you we get a drink this week, and perhaps we could explore each other. Intellectually, emotionally, physically, intimately.

    Drop me an email, save me from this dreadfully boring city(;
    therealjohnz@gmail.com

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  4. Maybe we should start with you taking that link down?

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  5. You should take the link down. Don't know what you are trying to achieve, but there is really no need for that. You are saying that it it a terrible thing to happen to a woman but then you post the link (with initials). The validity of what you are saying in the post gets lost due to that rather socially inadequate gesture.

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    1. I'm not achieving glory or getting an award you know. I'm just sharing my thoughts. Do you know this Malay lady and her Indian looking fella? You are so emotional..

      This kind of thing is a common thing on the internet. Videos are being shared everywhere. You shut one here, you will be surprised 20 more surfaced in new websites. What can you do? Best thing is to avoid doing it in the first place. She was enjoying it and she agreed to be filmed. Both of them. So both of them have to accept the repercussions. This is Internet. I can take it down, no prob, but U can't stop it from gg viral. Apparently it's been several years already and still spreading it some dodgy websites.

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    2. I'm not emotional, I just have strong aversion to bullshit. You are not looking to " achieving glory" ? How about notoriety...? In your article you deplore such behavior, yet you do exactly the same thing. Do you eat more food so that the others don't get fat? Do you smoke in a crowded room to show how bad it smells? Do you have deficient brain to realize you are telling people not to post such videos by posting one? Or perhaps you are looking to drag someone trough shit, by pretending you are doing them a favor.

      So please state your position. Are you mentally deficient not to see your hypocrisy? Or are you just trying to fuck someone up while pretending to be helpful? (a bitch). So - which is it?

      I am agog to here your answer?

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    3. Thanks for calling me all those wonderful names. Maybe you may need to read the blog posting again and see where I came from.

      Grow up, this is Internet.

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  6. Nice for posting the vid!! :) You do know that its illegal and punishable by law.. Its amatter of time before someone reports you to the police.. I would advise you to take down the link.. Its slander.. You might get sued and be grumpier than ever! :) x Tammy Lee

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  7. Not sure if you know this, but its illegal to put up links to videos like that even though the other website has the link.You and your friend could be liable for defamation, according to Singapore law:

    21.7.4 The three main requirements for a cause of action under the tort of defamation are as follows:

    (a) The statement must be defamatory in nature;
    (b) The statement must refer to the plaintiff; and
    (c) The statement must be published.

    (a) Defamatory in Nature

    21.7.5 A statement is defamatory in nature if it tends to (i) lowers the plaintiff in the estimation of right-thinking members of society generally, or (ii) cause the plaintiff to be shunned or avoided; or (iii) expose the plaintiff to hatred, contempt or ridicule.

    yes I 100% agree guys shouldnt make videos like that in the first place, but if I were you I would rather be safe than sorry.

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  8. Thanks for the advice again Anonymous. I'm beginning to suspect that you are the same person from your tone and mannerisms. But I still thank you because you are soo sweet and caring. FYI, even if it's from my blog or not, this video has been gg viral for a few years in many online platforms. According to several readers, the video was a dated one and there is another longer version (Yes!) in the same website. So when i got this email from my guy friend, it's not news anymore. Oh well.

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  9. Nope, the comments before that weren't me ... I just clicked on the option to comment as Anonymous, which is an option one can click on when they comment, and maybe other readers did too. You are right GS, people shouldnt make those videos in the first place

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    1. Haha I know, thanks for dropping by Anonymous :)

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  10. You still there? Still love sex?

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    1. Yes, I'm still alive and loving sex. Just had few good sessions with my Norwegian cutie two nights ago. Don't you just enjoy orgasms? <3

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