tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8775822365372735515.post5589886163106823512..comments2023-10-30T05:23:25.985-07:00Comments on Diary of a Grumpy Spinster: "Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater.."Grumpy Spinsterhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01262370690411094773noreply@blogger.comBlogger24125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8775822365372735515.post-90520222842714756072013-09-17T01:50:55.329-07:002013-09-17T01:50:55.329-07:00To the above poster: It's her life, why are yo...To the above poster: It's her life, why are you guys so judgey? Sheesh. U r prob wanting her to be a sad excuse of a stay at home nobody and write sad sorry comments - exactly like you, perhaps? Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8775822365372735515.post-34674500936859243692013-02-19T23:42:24.567-08:002013-02-19T23:42:24.567-08:00You are a horrible writer. Stick to writing in th...You are a horrible writer. Stick to writing in the stalls of the bathrooms - your numbers for guys to pick you up for a free fuck. No wonder he dumped you, ugly, pretentious, and you think you are something. You are ridiculous, child, so full of yourself and your ugliness. You should just stay in HDB and not come out.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8775822365372735515.post-45287105265763976992012-12-12T21:39:50.778-08:002012-12-12T21:39:50.778-08:00Been there done that Grumps...
My GF of a few yea...Been there done that Grumps...<br /><br />My GF of a few years (moved in to my place etc. so quite serious and headed to 'holy matremony' decided to cheat on me with a loser she knew from high school. I was based in West Coast US but was traveling far and wide back then working for a major Aviation company. <br /><br />The bitch would end her shift at ER then pop some caffeine pills, pick up my new Merc and go to fuck this loser she knew from high school. I eventually figured this out (as another poster mentioned) by her attitude changes and her constant state of guilt that there is something up. Eventually confirmed it by checking all the hotel addresses she had pinched in to the onboard Nav. and to top it I discovered their, how shall I put it, 'artistic' ventures captured on Camera. The bastard was a freak and even photoed their kissing!<br /><br />Anyways while obviously I was devestated and went through the usual motions of loss of confidence etc. and dealt with a painful and difficult breakup, I now come to think of this as the single best event of my whole life!<br /><br />I think if I could I would pin medals on the bastard who fucked her! Needless to say she is still single, desperate and from what I've heard semi-crazy! Ouch, I hope you never need her to diagnose you if you go to hospital! Haha<br /><br />Btw, my story does have a happy ending as I met my wife 2 years later and been happiest I've ever been since. USAFLt.noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8775822365372735515.post-79538794915867628372012-10-10T01:09:08.806-07:002012-10-10T01:09:08.806-07:00Wow...FIrst time reading such post from a Singapor...Wow...FIrst time reading such post from a Singaporean prespective. I am sorry to hear the hardships that you had gone through.<br />I would not say its entertaining as its unfair enjoying other people's sorrows..<br />Nonetheless, hope you put the pieces together and stay strong...ImMarriedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10944355504976060104noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8775822365372735515.post-44467305761605578622012-09-18T00:59:42.508-07:002012-09-18T00:59:42.508-07:00Hi! got your blog thru surfing around. anyway, I k...Hi! got your blog thru surfing around. anyway, I know how it felt like being cheated. Was cheated by my husband thrice in a year 2 yrs ago without me knowing it. found out when i saw his ipad msn conversations. It was devastating knowing how much I trusted him. the fact that we work in the same place makes it worse, how he did it right under my nose.<br /><br />i didn't leave him but told him that if he does it again, I'd walk and leave him in the lurch without having to see his 4 kids ever again and I'd tell his parents what a bastard he had been. They'd definitely have a heart attack, knowing how religious his parents was. <br /><br />Didnt think he mind not seeing his kids but letting his parents suffer the brunt of his actions wld set him to IMH for life I guess, being the only child. <br /><br />Anyway, he is a much better, more responsible husband now but I am still wary of his late nights or overtimes. Not letting him out of sight. Just like you, I do not condone relations with men who already married. how do u love one but fuck another?<br /><br />anyway, enjoyed reading your blog. keep 'em coming!oppsie daisynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8775822365372735515.post-53258226448293913042012-08-28T22:12:46.308-07:002012-08-28T22:12:46.308-07:00My ex of 9 yrs dumped me. While i was overseas wor...My ex of 9 yrs dumped me. While i was overseas working supporting her n her kids, she met a dude, and I didn't know for about a yr. It was only towards then end, when I realised her attitude towards me have changed to a point of hatred that I sense that something must be really wrong. I confronted her. She admitted it. For some reason she demanded to have sex with me on the spot, afterwhich she muttered "Gosh, I won't be doing that again!", as though to confirm to herself why she was dumping me. Or maybe it was to humiliate me. Anyway, I went into a 12 month long depressive state. 1 bottle of whiskey every nite, 6 nites of the week. Neglected my health, my work, my business. <br /><br />Then I met my wife. <br /><br />Now, I am happily married with a son of my own. Yes, deep inside I'm still a slut (hehe), but its kept surpressed since my wife doesn't believe in that lifestyle. Setbacks are necessary in life, that's the only way we know what is good when we get it. Someone once told me, "Courage, is not the absence of fear, but the ability to recognise fear, and go forward nonetheless.".Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04569575382172510031noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8775822365372735515.post-57106239391525520982012-08-24T05:40:00.235-07:002012-08-24T05:40:00.235-07:00Hi
Just discovered your blog and enjoyed reading t...Hi<br />Just discovered your blog and enjoyed reading the entries. I feel sorry for the men that did not treasure you in the past. You have a lot to offer, and if the right one comes along, I'm sure life would be more meaningful. I hope that day would happen someday for you, even though it feels like you have given up ...<br /><br />Regards<br />EastEndBoyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8775822365372735515.post-75345835426836789442012-05-27T11:29:27.247-07:002012-05-27T11:29:27.247-07:00Dear GS,
Enjoy your blog... Do not give up hope ...Dear GS, <br /><br />Enjoy your blog... Do not give up hope of finding a decent man. There are still good men around. <br /><br />Cheers<br />ah boyah boynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8775822365372735515.post-41162114561491414312012-05-20T09:34:11.930-07:002012-05-20T09:34:11.930-07:00GS, i think you are addicted to sex. You should se...GS, i think you are addicted to sex. You should seek help, medical help.....take care.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8775822365372735515.post-28009323475906854492012-05-19T01:37:36.454-07:002012-05-19T01:37:36.454-07:00Hey Sweet Sylvia,
I don't deny your hypothesi...Hey Sweet Sylvia,<br /><br />I don't deny your hypothesis. I shouldn't have given my virginity to Willy the 2-minute man. I shouldn't have allowed my curiosity to get the better of me. Perhaps, if I had remained a virgin till the day i got married to that very fortunate and extremely lucky man, I wouldn't be running aimlessly looking for love like...now. If only..<br /><br />I'm sad now. I need sex.Grumpy Spinsterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01262370690411094773noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8775822365372735515.post-43240614317559746002012-05-18T08:43:32.997-07:002012-05-18T08:43:32.997-07:00I love you Grumpy Spinster! For not 'looking d...I love you Grumpy Spinster! For not 'looking down' on IMH people and being so interested in our stories lol. There was a news article recently on the young and mentally ill (did u read?) and it dispels the notion of the social stigma in seeking professional help in IMH. So if u ever need it... don't be shy in seeking their services hehs. I wasn't seow ding dong when I went in and I wasn't seow ding dong when I went out. I'm really normal in real life, probably more normal than you lah. I do wish I'm fucking someone I love, but I just "quarrelled" with him on cyberspace. Sighs. Can't love be more straightforward? <br />Love your humour and stories on your blog, Grumpy Spinster! You are the best!chuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18212766084518128779noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8775822365372735515.post-57844303351025079942012-05-17T04:52:45.955-07:002012-05-17T04:52:45.955-07:00Hi GS, I enjoy reading your frank sharing. Keep th...Hi GS, I enjoy reading your frank sharing. Keep them coming. Thanks :) GS, could I seek your opinion? Do you think (when you were young, perhaps when you were in your late teens or early 20s) if you were to abstain from sex and you remained a virgin...and waited to have sex only with your husband (preferably, a man who was also a virgin and a man who had abstained from sex until marriage)....then the probability of you being happily and faithfully married....and you being satisfied in marital sex, felt fulfilled and no sense of betrayal and no bitterness....probabilty of that happening would be higher ? Possible ?<br /><br />Hugs and wish you a great week :DSylviahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06319564874352750529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8775822365372735515.post-46905395218917203052012-05-16T20:34:30.149-07:002012-05-16T20:34:30.149-07:00Jason!!! you know me so well! I love SEX and the C...Jason!!! you know me so well! I love SEX and the CITY!Grumpy Spinsterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01262370690411094773noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8775822365372735515.post-13924877743195882232012-05-16T20:33:45.234-07:002012-05-16T20:33:45.234-07:00oh dear. Angry sinkie man, I'm no angel. I hav...oh dear. Angry sinkie man, I'm no angel. I have sinned but i don't care becoz i choose and decide my life path. Who are you to say i'm bad? Do you know me? have we met? to each it's own. But i agree with you, there were instances where i didnt know about those men whom i fucked were married. But we broke up soon after i found out. Maybe I'll share my stories one of these days. <br /><br />Or maybe you want to share you experiences with me?Grumpy Spinsterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01262370690411094773noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8775822365372735515.post-64012500500677115202012-05-16T20:26:42.848-07:002012-05-16T20:26:42.848-07:00OMG barfedcow! Pls share your IMH stories with me....OMG barfedcow! Pls share your IMH stories with me. Hope you no longer seow ting tong and fully recovered from the ordeal. Thanks for dropping by and hope u are happily fucking someone you love now. <br /><br />HUgsGrumpy Spinsterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01262370690411094773noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8775822365372735515.post-7580573849240678662012-05-15T05:31:55.399-07:002012-05-15T05:31:55.399-07:00I have gone to IMH. It's no big deal. It's...I have gone to IMH. It's no big deal. It's not because of a man. It's because of family problems. Huge painfully Chinese family problems. Stayed there for a month. Recovered quickly and move on. There's no stigma and the people there are quite normal in real life. We listen to music, watch TV, read the news and magazines, play with the nurses, talk about our experiences and pester the nurses and doctors and healthcare workers.<br /><br />Surfed here from limpehft's blog. <br /><br />Hope u find true love. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8775822365372735515.post-1161630592600379272012-05-13T19:18:47.134-07:002012-05-13T19:18:47.134-07:00Sorry but you get no pity from me. For rejecting a...Sorry but you get no pity from me. For rejecting all those nice decent guys and going for a bastard, you fully deserve what you got. Do you believe in Karma? Think of all the white guys that you fucked whom you probably also knew were married. You are no better.Sinkie Manhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02706035597657167959noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8775822365372735515.post-577823797687709132012-05-07T05:19:37.208-07:002012-05-07T05:19:37.208-07:00Hello GS - its a monday! Bleaaah! It just dawned o...Hello GS - its a monday! Bleaaah! It just dawned on moi that you are like the Samantha equivalent from Sex n the City! hahahah... (yes it did take me quite a damn while)As for your index finger - *shudders at the thought* You should go take up yoga or something. <br />Have a good week ahead!jasonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01520000867803681070noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8775822365372735515.post-47290525231716097112012-05-06T10:11:04.421-07:002012-05-06T10:11:04.421-07:00Thanks, Have Fun. Your words soothes my aching hea...Thanks, Have Fun. Your words soothes my aching heart and menstrual cramps. Yes cheating applies to men, women and others. In fact after each experience, it makes you stronger with a protective membrane to cushion any impact that comes your way. To those who are going thru some rough times, hang it there. It will pass just like sunshine after a bad storm.Grumpy Spinsterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01262370690411094773noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8775822365372735515.post-80794736418295610982012-05-04T02:18:32.577-07:002012-05-04T02:18:32.577-07:00Hi GS, your blog strikes a cord in me. However, I ...Hi GS, your blog strikes a cord in me. However, I would like to say that cheating applies to both sexes. Failed relationship does changed a person... When my first gf cheated on me and left, I began to make many "new girl friends" and "love" dont mean the same thing to me anymore. When my second gf again cheated and left me.. (haha.. i never learnt), it started the next chapter of my life where I found out that one could pay women for company and sex! "Love" to me is nothing but a sham. Anyway, no regrets about doing that. I was young and a horny bastard! It makes more sense to pay than to go to jail for molesting/raping strangers?<br /><br />Anway, I enjoyed reading your blog! Have Fun!Have Funhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07622959655238990123noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8775822365372735515.post-65384481512623352082012-05-03T10:03:34.700-07:002012-05-03T10:03:34.700-07:00grammatical* arrggghhhhhhhhh!!!!grammatical* arrggghhhhhhhhh!!!!Grumpy Spinsterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01262370690411094773noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8775822365372735515.post-73557754107800690672012-05-03T10:03:02.134-07:002012-05-03T10:03:02.134-07:00Haha, deleted the previous one because of a gramat...Haha, deleted the previous one because of a gramatical error. -_-<br /><br />Hello Jason. Thanks for the constructive feedback. Apologies for the numerous typo and grammatical errors. They were unpalatable and unsightly. I will proof-read my postings before publishing them next time. My mind works faster than my fingers. Besides, my index finger got injured from a recent 'digging' action. Is that a good enough excuse? LOL. Anyways, glad you drop by and I've edited the grammar. Hope it's better. Hugs, GS.Grumpy Spinsterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01262370690411094773noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8775822365372735515.post-88375504988215511692012-05-03T09:59:12.892-07:002012-05-03T09:59:12.892-07:00This comment has been removed by the author.Grumpy Spinsterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01262370690411094773noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8775822365372735515.post-45148232479840785152012-05-03T04:27:58.285-07:002012-05-03T04:27:58.285-07:00Hi GS, aside from some grammatical errors, one can...Hi GS, aside from some grammatical errors, one can surely feel the angst and grief that you went through. You know what they say, what doesn't kill you.... In the end, we all become jaded and cynical in our own little ways. As for the fellow womankind - only thoughts that flash is All's fair in love and war.<br />Enjoy reading your graphic blog, keep it up.jasonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01520000867803681070noreply@blogger.com